Wait why was Kogen banned?
I do not understand why people being gay is a huge issue, my friend Ollie came out late last year, it took him so long because he was so ashamed, in-fact he's 24 and his parents still don't know.
My only problem is the people that use their sexuality as their sole defining characteristic, I don't discuss my sexuality, because it's just that. Mine, it's no one elses business.