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Offline MadeManG74

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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #180 on: June 10, 2010, 09:47:35 pm »
Thanks again! It's nothing terribly exciting I'm afraid, just had a series of unfortunate events from earlier in the week.

Also funny you mention dead-eye, I'm going to a shooting range this weekend. I'll report back if my dead eye came in handy with target practice. :p
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Offline George

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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #181 on: June 10, 2010, 11:50:07 pm »
Tell her, "I find you attractive, do you want to go to the movies".

Peel the band-aid, if its not good, move on. Simple. Better than waiting and being attached. Plus, if a girl liked you, I'm sure you would appreciate the bluntness.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #182 on: June 11, 2010, 01:00:13 am »
S'all good. Under control for the time being.  :afroman:
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #183 on: June 11, 2010, 01:38:07 am »
They don't appreciate that much bluntness, George. o__o We're not assuming that this girl is totally desperate, are we?

Asking her to a coffee shop or a small, casual restaurant would be a much better option. But don't simply ask her out of the blue, either. Talk to her a bit first, and try to give the impression that you're someone who she'd enjoy hanging out with. People are attracted to those with calm self-confidence, but not blunt arrogance. Also, make sure to be a good listener, and not spend large amounts of time talking about yourself unless she's interested to hear it. Most importantly, don't ever lie about yourself or try to make yourself seem like you're someone you're not (unless you're hoping for a one night stand or something).

Obviously, I'm not an expert at dating girls, but I'd say that's some rather universal advice. I hope that it wasn't too obvious or anything. ^__^
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Offline George

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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #184 on: June 11, 2010, 03:26:51 am »
I would appreciate. Life is short, stop wasting time. Girls know if they want to have sex with you in the first 10 mins they know you.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #185 on: June 11, 2010, 09:14:15 am »
Things. :)
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #186 on: June 11, 2010, 11:52:03 am »
George, that kind of approach is called the Pygmalion Effect or the self-fulfilling prophecy.  It's like, I know you don't like me, so let's get it over with. It's better to take the time to get to know someone first.  They don't know if they like you at first unless you can impress them with something--personality, whatever.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #187 on: June 11, 2010, 12:02:44 pm »
That is why you rip your shirt like hulk hogan.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #188 on: June 11, 2010, 01:26:01 pm »
Quote from: "George"
That is why you rip your shirt like hulk hogan.
It is true. This has worked for me once.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #189 on: June 11, 2010, 01:40:11 pm »
I demand video.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #190 on: June 12, 2010, 09:57:52 pm »
Again:

It's 3AM, I forgot how to fall asleep. I just wait around and wait till morning is here.
She's waiting for me to call her, I've forgotten how to care. No matter how much I love her I'm just too afraid of the future to do something about it.
I've cried yet, I forgot what it is to be sad. I did so many bad things I don't allow myself to feel miserable.

I love life, I hate myself. I don't think about it because it isn't worth affecting myself and her because of it. Still, it's 3h30AM and here I am alone wanting her here, praying she's awake too, crying over me and my damned weakness.

I'm sounding off a bit unfair though. Maybe it is true. I may just wish she yearns for me, but I want to spend my life with her. But not this way.. Not apart.. Holding each other, loving each other.

I don't realize what she means to me. Maybe I never will.. I'm just happy to have her.
Love of mine, wherever you are I hope you are aware that I love you.

Fuck my sins. I've awaited your kiss for too long.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #191 on: June 13, 2010, 12:48:07 am »
Advice: Crackdude, everything you typed above? Don't tell her that or act like that around her. Girls don't want to date a guy that is down on themselves, they want someone that could protect them and be confident.

Walk up to her house, break down her door, punch her abusive dad in the face and have sex in her parents bed room. After, walk downstairs and force her mother to make you hamburger helper, basket in glory because she will write of your legend in her diary.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #192 on: June 13, 2010, 03:28:32 am »
Call her or you'll regret it. I second George's advice. Even if you're a sentimental whiny bitch like myself, get that mask and act confident.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #193 on: June 13, 2010, 10:01:46 am »
That's exactly what I'm feeling! I'm mr Man around her and she loves it. But when I'm alone I feel so...down.. I hate being so damn far away from her. I'm a needy son of a bitch lol

Well, I probably better not punch her father in the face since he's probably going to be my professor in University, but yeah that sounds like something I would do.

I will be confident! Thanks guys.
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Re: Relationship Thread
« Reply #194 on: July 15, 2010, 06:46:08 pm »
Farewell and good riddance.
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