Yeah, I avoided saying "pray" in my article mentioning the disaster since I think it does nothing. Consider this: we are way over here, they are way over there. Neither of us speak the same language. When I head home and say a prayer, is does absolutely nothing for them. However, a donation to the Red Cross actually does something.
I do, however, believe the term "keep them in your thoughts" is far better, as it means when you're going about your disaster-free day, remember that people elsewhere aren't doing so well. I kept Japan in my thoughts, and during my lunchtime I did some googling about the disaster and found that Capcom are giving their Street Fighter IV App sales to charity. Downloaded and a bit more money went towards the cause.
praying: 0
thoughts: 1