A good game is a good game. So the setting isnt perfectly ideal or the character isnt something you can fap over... So what?
God of War is a good game right? Lots of people tell me that. Still, I find the gameplay boring and the violence way too grotesque. I simply can't enjoy it at all. Am I less of a gamer because of that?
To me, personally, it's a bad game.
"good" and "bad" are so subjective.. Unless something is broken, there is no bad. But being good isn't an absolute characteristic.
I'm usually not even vocally critical on games, I try to enjoy something in everyone of them.. But that "true gamer" comment tingled me.